It seems that it’s never too late to be baptized. Even the
dead can get this.
Baptism for the dead, vicarious baptism or
proxy baptism refers to the religious practice of baptizing a person
on behalf of one who is dead. A living person then receives the rite
on behalf of a deceased person. Baptism for the dead is best known as a
doctrine of the Latter
Day Saint movement, practicing it since 1840.
Those who practice this rite view baptism as an
essential requirement to enter the Kingdom of God, and therefore practice baptism for the dead to
offer it by proxy to those who died without the opportunity to receive it. The
Church of Latter Day Saints (Mormon) teaches that those who have died may
choose to accept or reject the baptisms done on their behalf.
Another event never too late to preform, is
marriage for the dead. Yes, you are reading that. In Chinese tradition, a ghost marriage (pinyin: mínghūn;
literally: "spirit marriage") is a marriage in which one or both
parties are deceased. Other forms of ghost marriage are practiced
worldwide, from Sudan, to France since 1959. The origins of Chinese ghost
marriage are largely unknown, and reports of it being practiced today can be
found. Chinese ghost marriage was usually set up by the family of the
deceased and performed for a number of reasons, including the marriage of an
engaged couple before one member's death to integrate an unmarried daughter
into a patrilineage to ensure the family line is continued, or to maintain that
no younger brother is married before an elder brother. A previously engaged
woman upon the death of her fiancée, can choose to go through with the wedding,
in which the groom was represented by a white cockerel at the ceremony.
However, some women were hesitant since this form of ghost marriage required
her to participate in the funeral ritual, mourning customs (including strict
dress and conduct standards), take a vow of celibacy, and
immediately take up residence with his family. A groom had the option of marrying his late fiancée, with
no disadvantages, but there have been no records of such weddings.
Then there is the posthumous marriage (or
necrogamy). This is a marriage in which one of the participating members is
deceased. It is legal in France and similar forms are practiced in Sudan and
China. Since World War I, France has had hundreds of requests each year, of which
many have been accepted.
And so it appears you can still be baptized or
even marry that special person, even though you are moldering in your grave.
Death isn’t the end, but the beginning.